What will you do?
Baby, is a great gift of life. Especially, when it was your first baby. You will be like screaming or hurry up to help him when he falls on his first step.
Yeah it’s happen to my family. My little Hyde it’s 16 months old and his trying to run sometimes. And all my family was very protective to him. But then I see it useless. Hyde doesn’t want to try hard for something, but now not anymore.
Because I let him fall (in a good way). If he not that hurt, I pretend not see what happen. Deep inside my heart its paint full sometimes, but I want Hyde learn more from it.
So, on every session family trip, I give him a trust. I let him walk with message "Hyde, mommy gonna let you walk. But please be careful and don’t run! Okay".
I don’t know if he understand or not, but I do just believe in him. I give my trust to him. Sometimes he just smiles to my words or ignore it haha...
And what happen is, Hyde always trying so hard to prove that he really can handle it. He fall again and again but never give up. He do it with fun. And he grows up natural as a happy baby.
On the other side, sometimes I see some parent trying so hard to make their kids walk or do something’s. Just don’t push them; they still have lots of time to learn.
A lot time to try anything that they want to. Not just because they were told to by their parents. Make them as free individual even thought they still baby. Believe me, they know and understand us, they will follow what we do and what we say. So be careful parent hahaha...
I make this video couples days ago, Hyde walking happily and fall but he try all over again. I know its little bit hurt for him, but he
Of course after that I still have to check his feet if something hurt. And actually my little brother walking near Hyde, so when something happen he can just grab Hyde fast :D
enjoy it.
And what happen is, Hyde always trying so hard to prove that he really can handle it. He fall again and again but never give up. He do it with fun. And he grows up natural as a happy baby.
On the other side, sometimes I see some parent trying so hard to make their kids walk or do something’s. Just don’t push them; they still have lots of time to learn.
A lot time to try anything that they want to. Not just because they were told to by their parents. Make them as free individual even thought they still baby. Believe me, they know and understand us, they will follow what we do and what we say. So be careful parent hahaha...
I make this video couples days ago, Hyde walking happily and fall but he try all over again. I know its little bit hurt for him, but he
Of course after that I still have to check his feet if something hurt. And actually my little brother walking near Hyde, so when something happen he can just grab Hyde fast :D
enjoy it.
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